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Zero Tolerance for Female Genital Mutilation


Clitorodectomy (partial or complete removal of the clitoris) or infibulation (excision of part or all of the external genitalia and stitching/narrowing of the vaginal opening) are both mutilations. Cruel as the affected, the child’s consent is never sought. Both are unhygienic and can cause severe medical complications in future for the girl child.

Erroneously people think female genital mutilation is a religious mandate. That misconception should be debunked. Nowhere in any Holy books was it mentioned  to circumcise females. Male Circumcision is enjoined and a sunnah in Islam. It is so encouraged in Christianity too because of the beneficial health consequences.  

Justly, sexual pleasure is a legal right to both sexes on moral ground. It is very crucial that even religions allow a divorce on the ground of sexual dissatisfaction. It's a right not a privilege. Male circumcision enhances pleasure and has health benefits therefore encouraged. While female circumcision has been proven to truncate female maximum sexual enjoyment and it bears some health complications. It should be stopped.

We need to know that what's not copiously prohibited is permitted by religions. The mix up is in attributing the culture of some people to be a presumptive aspect of their religions. Remember, Jewish and Arabian cultures predated Islam and Christianity. Those religions came with their guides---Holy books.

Without mincing words, female genital mutilation is an infringement of the child's right at a stage when the child is incapable of giving valid consent.  It's maiming, like amputation of her hand because you don't want your child to hold male sex organs or blinding of her eyes because you don't want her to succumb to the pleasure of lusting.
  
The argument that it is done to curb promiscuity is so watered that the premise cannot even hold the claim. The absence or presence of a responsive clitoris does not in any rate affect immorality.  Promiscuity is a choice and fidelity is a discipline.  Why do we have gay if having clitoris is the only danger to infidelity? In the real sense, it is the absence of pleasure that proliferates the search for it {pleasure} at all cost. Thus we find ourselves plagued with so much sexual and hedonistic extremism e.g. sexual child abuse, torture sex, misogyny, asexuality etc. With pleasure, the female organs relax and the hunger abated. It is same for every individual. I cannot be convinced that clitoris is an enabler for promiscuity. 


Therefore, I stand against that as I stand against all piercings. I stand stronger against it because it's against the girl child's right to choice. It is an abuse of parenthood.  Like tribal incision, it's a minor handicapping of a child that helplessly cannot boast of valid consent. It's no better than regarding your child as a slave who's with no dignity as to choice of her pleasure, her image, and her being.  

As a rape of pleasure: Female genital mutilation should be stopped. 
  

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