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VIRGINITY AND MORALITY


Today, virginity may not be morality. There are so many untoward ways of sexual knowledge without the carnal. Whereas we consider a lady's moral aptitude through her virginity, a guy is considered a free agent in that regards.

The double standard is an issue, as parents at times find it convenient to question and facilitate sexual activeness of the male but shy away from sexual discussion with females. On a lighter note, could it be because a male did more of the coital work in those days in contrast to our sexual modernism?


Morality should be impressed on every gender regardless of the 'propensity to be promiscuous'.  The erroneous belief is that females are more susceptible to promiscuity thus we maim their pleasure organs, derail their freedom, and chastise them. The male should be subject to equal morality check while stigmatization of female and that unhealthy circumcision should stopped.  Sanitary pads should be as cheap as condoms.


The only natural freedom a male has is that there is no vent to determine his innocence while a female has hymen-check naturally emplaced.  But we will talk morality, adopt morality, and compel every male not to flaunt the freedom as if it's a birthright or morality-right.

Let's for once see virginity from the perspective of no religious imposition.  Virginity is a state of never having had intercourse. Any form of intercourse (we need to repeat: anal, carnal, oral etc.) will render one's innocence tainted.  Morality according to Merridiam Webster dictionary is the degree to which something is good or bad.  Our morality-play thematizes taking what's legally yours. That's sweet, pleasurable and right. While taking what's not yours is a rape on morality and a theft of virginity: that's bad.  

Since we all agree that what's bad will, in the long run, beget evil. Our common sense has a meeting point with our religions. Therefore every male should, before displaying a phallic pride, make it legal. That's the difference between hanky-panky and making love. And females too should keep their pride till the deed will be right.

--Toonday. 



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