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DECLUTTERING AND DEATH CLEANING:THE LIVING AND THE KINDNESS IN OUR DYING




Living is a quadratic equation with a pre-determined answer (death) yet we keep trying to solve the equation. Year 2017 gave a fair share of answers to many lives. From international, national, to local personalities, lives were lost. To us, at first it appeared a distant reality until someone close to us succumbed to that harsh reality. To the young, it's a distant rumor. To the old, constant topic heavily brooded. If living is an act of dying, how can we then be gracious in dying? I came across this term: death cleaning and alas it's the much needed answer. How we can shroud in our living (dying) the preparatory kindness that can live after us and make neighbors happy? 

Every breathing being will one day taste death.  No amount of science, or achievement, or bitterness or super-humanness can change that. If so, won't we live in all preparation for the constant exit? Death cleaning is a Swedish term that describes a conscious and deliberate preparation for death by disposing unnecessary clutters, possessions, etc. by giving them to the have-nots in order to spread kindness to others.

 

Decluttering may be a befuddling term. How easy will it be to start giving away parts of one's properties? For instance, in your wardrobe, those clothes you do not touch after four visits to your laundry man can be given as an act of kindness. The benefits include: a means of spreading kindness to others, reduction of one’s effects after death, lessening burden on relatives that will do the clean up, an organized and lightened existence and most of all, you will live in a free air, healthy space without weighing burden of too much belongings.

 

Is it only clothes? No. Books also can be decluttered, gadgets, equipment, utensils, etc. Is it only individuals that can declutter? No. There are mosques with excess of kettles, abandoned mats and rugs after tiling while there are other mosques that lack this comfort. Same goes for churches. Not only do we spread the kindness, we lighten our hearts and reorganize our mementoes--possessions that are dear to our hearts--and most importantly we turn what we have abandoned to a value for those in dire of such. Revaluation of garbage is creating a use for the unused. 

Let's declutter.

--toonday


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